Mikaere Haumaha: 3 years old

Mikaere Haumaha is growing up on family land, surrounded by his whānau. In his busy life as a three-year-old, he still carries with him the memory of a twin sister who died before birth.

Mikaere is the youngest son of Kimmi and Anaru Haumaha. He has three brothers and two sisters, but the oldest three –18, 21, and 25 – live away from home. His family lives on land owned by the extended whānau (family), and they are surrounded by relatives, including grandparents and right next to the Mangakaretu Marae in Putāruru. 

A busy family
Mikaere's parents both work full-time. Kim works as a dental assistant at a local dental surgery and Anaru is an addictions counsellor. He has worked in mental health, drug and alcohol rehabilitation, and at present works for the Problem Gambling Foundation. Outside of their busy jobs, Kim and Anaru spend as much time as they can with their children.

Brothers
Mikaere and his older brother Cruix love playing together. During the day their grandparents Jo and Wana Haumaha [Maama and Paapa] look after them, or they go to a local kindy [Glenshea Kindergarten] in Putāraru. They also go to the St Mary’s pre-school play group.

Curious and mischievous
Mikaere is a cheeky, curious boy who likes to challenge his parents and other adults. Kim and Anaru love his mischievousness and curiosity, except when he takes mechanical things and toys – including his brother's – apart and can't put them back together again. 

Outdoors
Mikaere loves playing outside. He is a natural sportsman and is always kicking a ball about, climbing and running.

Indoors
Mikaere loves music – watching it, listening to it, and dancing to it. His favourite song is "Party Rock" by LMFAO. He is not so keen on watching TV or films – 10 or 15 minutes is often long enough.

His special toys include a yellow baby Big Bird which has been an absolute favourite since he was very small.

Memories of a twin sister
Mikaere was a twin but his twin sister Ani died before she was born. During this sad time, tikanga Māori (protocols) were very important for the grieving family. They always remember Ani, and her wairua (spirit) is always part of their life. Often when Mikaere is playing by himself, he says he is talking and playing with her. She is buried, with her brother's whenua (placenta), under a kauri tree and a large kōhatu (stone) near the family home.